April 26th, 2012 at 7:29 pm
hello, umm im in a huge dilemma….. to start my girlfriend and i broke up for a month due to me and i understand it completely, so what did i do i went and had sex with a girl thinking it was fine… later that next month my x girlfriend calls me and says she wants to try and work stuff out but she tells me i need to tell the truth. i agreed but i asked what are we then and she said just friends. and also we can do whatever we want. so we BOTH agreed on terms. couple weeks pass of only me pursuing her but i felt she had nothing toward me she never called never texted back… so i waited another week waiting for her to contact me for once.. never came… so i went and had sex with that girl again.. then i get a call for my x girlfriend and i tell her the truth on what happened and everything and she said she did the same thing on the same day as well.. so we both were ok and everything and i told her about me not feeling anything and she agreed.. so we then became supper close texting calling morning afternoon night and it was great.. then last night she calls me and she asks if i had sex with that girl more then once.. and i told her the truth that yes i did.. but she now is extremely pissed off and her mom texts me these exact words ” if you cant be the man she needs you to be, leave her alone! Do the right thing. she needs someone who lovers her not someone that makes her cry” So i replied “so i should have lied to her? because i promised her i would lie” and her mom replies back ” you know what she expected from you.you know that she believed that girl was just some random girl and a one time thing. you also know that she planned to be with you forever. you can manipulate, lie, twist the truth but you know this was something you should have told her. (i can hear you saying FU) HA!” i love this girl with all my heart.. and im not just saying that….. and i didnt even tell my X how many times i just said i had sex with this girl… idk whos wrong or right but i feel that when your single i didnt think it mattered.. but when we got close i did what she asked and look where that got me… lost with nothing…..
May 3rd, 2012 at 3:26 pm
YOU R RIGHT TO HAVE TOLD HER THE TRUTH WHAT YOU SHOULD DO I GO TO HER HOUSE AND BEG ON YOUR KNEES
FOREEVER SAY I WILL DO ANYTHING JUST TO NOT LET YOU GO
PS I AM A CHRISTAIAN AND I THINK YOU SHOULDENT HAVE HAD SEX IN THE FIRST PLACE